Monday, April 10, 2006

About Self Love

How do I love myself?
Love of Self is simply a view of Self. If you view yourself with a great deal of compassion, and suspend all judgment, then replace that judgment with understanding, and compassion, you will come closer and closer to love your authentic self. So many people have taken on the views of others during their earlier years, and have not learned how to replace those views with the pure truth.
The way to do this is to immediately stop insulting yourself, cutting you down, and degrading yourself. This is paramount! Instead of saying: "I stink at this" say: "I am doing my best, and that is all that is needed." You have to bring all of the small insulting lies that you tell yourself up to your conscious awareness.
In order to truly love yourself, you must change how you view yourself, and that can only be with complete compassion, care, respect, and honestly taking a conscious effort to change the verbal abuse you dish out to yourself when you are not even aware of it most of the time.
Honor what makes you "different" because that is your unique Light that you are on this Earth to shine! Treat yourself the way you wish someone else would treat you, and always give yourself a heartfelt hug for the sacred person that you are.

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